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What does a chaplain do ?
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Go into work-places to support employees at their place of work
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with the agreement of the employer
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on a regular basis
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generally, 2-3 hours a week or a half-day a fortnight
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generally chatting & being sociable
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building up relationships
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being available for 1-1 deeper discussions
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giving people the opportunity to be real
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What is the need ?
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people cannot be real:
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we don’t have friends & family relationships like we used to
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we don’t trust people, we don’t tell them about our real problems, our real concerns, our real needs
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we go into work mode; family mode; spiritual-mode, mates mode
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a lot of problems go away (or become manageable) when we talk about them
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we regain our perspective
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sometimes professional help is required
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a confidential discussion with a chaplain may give the support necessary for the individual to then seek professional help
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What are the skills required to be a chaplain ?
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tact and common sense
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an appreciation for the constraints of the business
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you recognise that you are a guest
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you forgo your agenda and time constraints for theirs
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when someone is obviously busy that is not the time for a pastoral meeting – a quick Hi! is sufficient
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an interest in people
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listening skills
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we’re giving them the opportunity to talk about what they want to – about what they may need to
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What different types of chaplain are there ?
There are essentially 3 types of chaplain:
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chaplains who actually go into an organisation
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chaplains who meet with people wanting to talk on an ad hoc appointment basis
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telephone chaplains who are on call (ie man a phone) for a few hours per week to offer personal support on the phone
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Also, the types of organisation vary enormously and being a chaplain will be very different if you’re going into a departmental store, an organisation such as the police, or small stores in a shopping centre. However, regardless of the context, chaplaincy is simply about one human-being giving time to listen and be with another human-being.
Why not contact David Morgan – the Town Chaplain – to discuss whether you could help by becoming a volunteer chaplain or in some other way? |
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